The Potential Benefits of Narcissism in Athletic and Coaching Relationships

Recent research conducted by sports scientists at Nottingham Trent University has delved into the complex role of personality traits, particularly narcissism, in shaping the dynamics between athletes and coaches. Traditionally viewed negatively, narcissism encompasses traits such as self-centeredness, dominance, entitlement, and high self-confidence. Surprisingly, within the competitive realm of elite sports, these traits can sometimes serve as advantageous components.

The study aimed to explore how the personalities of both coaches and athletes influence their relationship, especially when both parties see themselves as the 'star' of the show. Researchers interviewed coaches whose levels of narcissism either matched or contrasted sharply with their athletes' traits, revealing insights into the effect of these personality alignments.

Findings showed that coaches often considered their relationships with athletes as ideal, believing they could accurately interpret behaviors to foster success. However, they expressed concerns about these relationships becoming unmanageable if egos grew too large. Despite potential conflicts, coaches emphasized the importance of maintaining control, recognizing that some tension could be beneficial.

Notably, the study found that relationships between individuals with similar levels of narcissism—whether both high or both low—could be particularly effective in sport settings. Conversely, mismatched levels of narcissism between coaches and athletes were associated with increased conflict.

Lead researcher Joseph Stanford highlighted that even relationships with friction could succeed when based on mutual respect and shared commitment. He emphasized that managing narcissism—both recognizing it in oneself and in others—can enhance athletic performance. Coaches are encouraged to celebrate athletes’ achievements and give them opportunities to feel exceptional, all while avoiding excessive dominance.

Dr. Laura Healy, senior author, pointed out that understanding personality traits in the coach-athlete relationship remains limited, but this research extends current knowledge by showing how narcissism, when managed well, can contribute to positive relationships. Such insights can help coaches and athletes develop stronger bonds, ultimately benefiting their performance and well-being.

This study, in collaboration with Bangor University, is published in the journal Sport, Exercise, and Performance Psychology.