Majority of Donor-Conceived Children Are Informed of Their Biological Origins, New Study Finds

Recent research conducted by the University of Auckland reveals that approximately 80-86% of parents who have children conceived through donor eggs, sperm, or embryos disclose their child’s biological origins. The study surveyed 374 parents of children aged 7 to 18 years old, uncovering that most parents choose to share donor conception details early in their child's life, often before they turn ten. Interestingly, the data shows that parents of heterosexual couples are somewhat less likely to disclose this information (82%) compared to those in same-sex relationships or single-parent families, where disclosure rates are higher.

The survey, which targeted parents who used fertility clinics and included the first cohort of donor-conceived children eligible to access their donor’s identity at age 18 under the Human Assisted Reproductive Technology (HART) Act 2004, indicates that early disclosure can help children integrate their conception story into their identity smoothly. The researchers note that children who learn about their conception later do not necessarily react negatively, emphasizing that timing may be flexible.

Most parents shared this information at an age under ten, aligning with international guidelines, and about half of the surveyed parents remain in contact with the donors. The study also highlights diverse emotional responses; some donor-conceived individuals have reported positive experiences meeting their donors, while others expressed feelings of anger or betrayal for not being informed earlier.

Lead author Dr. Karyn Anderson points out that support from fertility clinics post-birth could enhance families' disclosure processes. Encouraging open communication, linking donor-conceived children with donors or donor siblings, and providing guidance to parents are recommended steps to support healthy family dynamics. For those interested in discovering their donor’s identity, contacting the fertility clinic is advised. Overall, the study emphasizes that transparency benefits the emotional well-being and identity formation of donor-conceived children.