Sometimes we’re so eager to advance that going backward seems strange and out of the ordinary.
We frequently advance so quickly that we lose ourselves in the process and become disorganized.
Small aspects that define our characters begin to disappear.
Do not be reluctant to read a previous chapter.
Reread the section of the book where you played the lead role… where you seemed to value yourself the most in the book.
Therefore, I’ve compiled a list of 5 fantastic ideas for you to be yourself and reclaim her in this blog post.
1. Write down what she was like before.
Recall the charming and gorgeous characteristics she once possessed.
Write down the principles and ethics she used to hold dear, then think back on your fondest moments.
Consider what changed between then and today to see if it is a change that can be corrected.
Try not to concentrate solely on those very important questions.
Pay close attention to even the seemingly unimportant details, such as the way she used to dress her clothing, the pleasant perfume she wore, the songs she used to sing, and more.
Spend some time getting to know her from the inside out.
2. Read all of the books again that she used to spend hours reading.
Take a week, two weeks, or even a whole month.
Immerse yourself to the fullest in a reading marathon of all the literature she used to love. Sit down in your favorite reading spot and allow those warm, familiar feelings to envelope you as you return to a time when you were stress-free and at peace.
I personally have chosen to begin with simply 5 books for the time being and work my way up to a sea storm of books gradually.
3. Find solace within yourself. Make a solo picnic date.
And please don’t say that you can’t do it.
Bring a picnic basket filled with food, a blanket, and your best outfit for the day. Bring a pen, a notepad, or even your laptop with you and start writing about anything.
A solitary date is usually a terrific opportunity to observe both your surroundings and yourself.
Get to know yourself by talking to yourself. Close your eyes, take a delicious mouthful of your cinnamon roll, and then gently lie down on your picnic blanket to daydream.
Dream of things that might seem a little bit impossible, and consider how to make them possible.
4. Recall how she used to put herself first.
Take note of how she used to distance herself from things that gave her bad feelings. Whether it was folks she knew in real life or strangers she met on social media,
Be mesmerized by how well-prepared she was for everything in her life, always being so organized.
Keep in mind how organization gave her a dazzling beauty that was impossible to overlook, as well as confidence.
Don’t forget to think back on how she used to create limits that were both obvious and unambiguous, both for herself and her own mental health as well as for others.
Watch how every decision she made became so much more significant and deserving once she took a moment to reflect and pause before answering “yes” or “no” to a request or proposal.
5. Schedule a tranquil and opulent evening for yourself.
I would love to go to a posh restaurant dressed in a long, black evening gown and listen to live smooth jazz music while indulging on the tastiest lasagna of my life.
Better still, I’d like to awaken one evening, go out onto the balcony, and be enthralled by the beauty of Greece, or maybe even Italy.
Why not schedule an evening just to embrace and fall in love with yourself once more? It isn’t necessary to go as far as making travel arrangements or even going outside.
Dim the lights, arrange your furniture, and decorate your home. Light fragrant candles all over.
Play your favorite music in the background as you relax and enjoy a delectable dinner.
That’s all, folks.
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